{"id":150,"date":"2026-05-31T11:05:16","date_gmt":"2026-05-31T10:05:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/?p=150"},"modified":"2026-06-02T12:04:37","modified_gmt":"2026-06-02T11:04:37","slug":"%f0%9f%8c%99-why-eye-contact-matters-to-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/2026\/05\/31\/%f0%9f%8c%99-why-eye-contact-matters-to-me\/","title":{"rendered":"\ud83c\udf19 Why Eye Contact Matters to Me"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>By Lola Summer<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I notice eye contact before anything else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A man can say all the right things, but if there\u2019s no tension in the way he looks at me\u2026 I lose interest quickly. For me, chemistry starts in silence first. It\u2019s that moment when someone holds your gaze just a little longer than expected and suddenly the atmosphere changes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s usually when I know I want to meet him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\ud83d\udc49 You can message me here:<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.real-sexcontacts.com\/preview.php?rf=100&amp;memberid=67182421\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/www.real-sexcontacts.com\/preview.php?rf=100&amp;memberid=67182421<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe I\u2019ll be looking back at you next\u2026 \ud83c\udf19<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video height=\"1280\" style=\"aspect-ratio: 720 \/ 1280;\" width=\"720\" controls src=\"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/instagram_1780161214699.mp4\"><\/video><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Lola Summer I notice eye contact before anything else. A man can say all [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":152,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[38],"tags":[39],"class_list":["post-150","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psychology-of-attraction","tag-psychology-of-attraction"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=150"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":190,"href":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/150\/revisions\/190"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/152"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=150"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=150"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lolasummers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=150"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}